Wednesday, August 17, 2011

mini update

Today is 10dp3dt and my beta is not until 15dp3dt. This is because we are traditionally late implant-ers and to prevent what happened last time our new RE is making us hold out. Hammer and I are not doing a home test for that same reason but will be testing the morning of beta.

I've had to take a forced break from the internet to A) protect my sanity and B) to study for my exams. I was not mentally ready to take my tests post transfer so I had to impose an internet hiatus in order to pass (which I did!). But the next day I was consulting Dr. Google and having a meltdown. So I am imposing the hiatus again. So other than a quick update today I probably won't be posting again until beta day. I think they said I should get my results by 4pm.

I'm getting my butt kicked in the symptom department by these suppositories and have every symptom in the book: extreme fatigue, emotional (weepy), extremely sore boobs, cramps (not sharp ones like the last IVFs), hunger, headaches, constipation....really you should just go look up the drug information and it will give you the full list. It's been fun. I'm doing my best to keep up a positive attitude and the Circle and Bloom has helped if I can stay awake to do them. I honestly can't tell. At one point I let myself talk to Dr. Google on 9dp3dt and what pops up? My last IVF post. I Googled myself. So basically I have no idea how this will end.

I was shook up today though when one of my good IRL friends who had her transfer two weeks before me learned that her pregnancy did not progress past 6 weeks. She just learned today that she had a blighted ovum. It is all too deja vu as our first pregnancy was a blighted ovum. The worst part is that I'm away on business so Hammer is no where near me so give me hugs and let me cry for them and for the fears that it brings up for us. Four more days till beta....

7 comments:

BB said...

Thinking of you! {HUGS}

kdactyl said...

So glad you posted...I know how hard these weeks can be...I have been there several times. BUT...strangely enough...I had a dream last night that you got a BFP!!!! So...I'm really hoping dreams come true... :)
Hang in there... I know this is grueling...I hope the next few days go by quickly for you.

kd

Nicole said...

thinking of you and praying HARD. I so badly want this to work for you. you've been through so much. it's time. T&P

KZ said...

I will be praying for a positive.

Allison said...

Will be thinking of and praying for both you and your friend.

Brittney said...

Hang in there, dear friend. Been praying for you and thinking about you so much!!! Praying His peace covers you during this time. ((HUGS))

kdactyl said...

Today is beta day and I am really praying hard. I hope the day and the waiting is not too hard on you. Hugs.
kd